Often couples in the eyes of the world seen to have a fairytale love, this means, happy and perfect. However, many times this romance has a dark background. Maybe in the union have some situations that should not be permitted by either of them, given that they are usually easy to detect, but not easy to accept.
There are certain human behaviors and reactions that may appear normal or even be considered right in a relationship; but in fact they are protecting features that could become a big problem. In couples it is common to have different ideas about the same point or have different ways of doing an activity, but when it turns into a negative action? The moment you express what you feel disrespecting the other.
An example of this behavior is when a strong, possessive and demanding tone of voice is used, in some cases shouting. The discussions of this kind, if not treated in time, can end in violence; and healthy relationships enjoy a good communication abide the other person perspective without being offended and under no circumstances they physically assault each other.
On the other hand, that our companion is aware of the activities that we do is also not so bad, this is a symbol of confidence. The problem is when they abuse of this fact creating a sense of authority as if the other person was an object.
Instead of being able to freely tell partner how is set our itinerary an approval is requested to be able to make the different errands. The rules imposed by one side on the other create a state of insecurity and low self-esteem, resulting in a devastating dependence.
The person that appreciates who has on their side often feels proud of the achievements of this person. On the other hand, when there is no appreciation for the partner, every goal that their partner reach will seem absurd or insufficient. The individuals who don’t like to see others arise or who feel they are the center of the universe, have this particular selfish reaction.
Some people argue every day, for every reason, no matter how insignificant it may be. This coexistence generates a constant atmosphere of hostility, which does show the little tolerance and dissatisfaction they have for each other. When they reach this point the professional recommendation is to take different paths and although it may seem difficult and painful, if the action is not taken the relationship could complicate. An opposite case, good coexistence and assessment reflects on the other, which allows pleasant dialogue without argue.
We must be careful with these details and attack them in the first moment that are found in our relationship; noting that among the measures to take to avoid falling into this emotional crisis, we found dialogue, communication and respect to each individual being that we live and teamed up to grow as a couple in the construction of a happy life, full of a healthy coexistence.
ALFA