With or without a condom? This is one of the most common questions every couple makes at the moment of being intimate, due to the amount of relevant testimonies regarding this, where it is believed that having sex without a condom, leads to a more satisfying feeling, and greater range of pleasure and climax from both. Let’s see how true that is and what are its advantages and disadvantages.
Among some of the causes that lead to the practice of sex without a condom, it is the discomfort felt by women, since for many and for those who are starting their sexual life, the use of a condom is painful. Therefore, according to surveys, an estimated 40% of women have had sex without a condom at least two or more times in their life.
Because of this, has become necessary to use other types of contraceptives such as vaginal rings, injections, birth control pills or the withdrawal (Coitus interruptus) by the couple which depends on the experience the man has over the control of his own ejaculation and this should be with the consent of both. There are many causes that can lead to the woman discomfort when the partner use a condom, but may be due to improper use of the same or also by an allergy to latex.
Now, it is advisable to have sex without a condom? First we must make it clear that the decision depends on trust, conditions and sexual communication of each partner, who will decide what is most convenient according to their own opinion. Note that according to studies, it was found that the lack of pleasure is not related to the use of condoms as previously thought, but this will depend on other factors such as: the duration of intercourse, manual stimulation and erection.
In another sense, it is important to note that safe sex would help greatly reduce the risks that would involve a contagion by sexually transmitted diseases, even more if it is a casual encounter, where the condom represent one of the most effective and reliable methods against them, only if used properly. If you are still not satisfied or feel that the sensation with the use of it is not so pleasant, you can try putting some lubricant on the tip of the condom before putting it; this can be an effective method to have greater sensations.
On the other hand, if it is not to the liking of the couple, they may turn to other contraceptive methods, but always bearing in mind that for peace of mind and enjoyment; there’s nothing like being responsible and practice safe sex. The decision is on you, decide today to be the example of all those women who are starting their sex life.
ALFA