You prepared for her romantic date, that which your guy promised weeks ago, it seems that all is well and you think you will spend a splendid night, but suddenly notice that your partner is not ready to go, and it’s because he can leave without finishing an important “Call of Duty” mission and when he realized, he has already lost an hour. Dear friend, it seems that video games have taken over the evening and even more time from your guy. You are faced to a real gamer.
For those who don’t know the term “gamer”, it refers to those addicted to video games, they spend at least five hours of their time to them, developing a great interest and knowledge about the history of the same, isolating this way to reality, to enter this fictional world.
How to detect a “gamer” man? Well, perhaps this may sound a bit absurd to many, who associate the term exclusively to children, however, there are a lot of women who must deal with a man addicted to video games. This affects mostly young couples, if this is the case, today you will learn to decipher the signals that will detect how “gamer” is her partner and how to deal with him.
First, her boyfriend knows and talks a lot about videogames, many times more than he should and using a language that you do not understand. On the other hand, it does not mind spending the last penny out of your pocket just to buy the latest version of your favorite video game, as they spend many hours daily to such an extent that prefer to spend time with your game console with you and not paying attention to what he says, because his concentration is exclusively focused on defeating the enemy on the opposite side.
In this sense, and if you’ve detected all these features in your guy, you can be sure that her boyfriend is a true “gamer”. Now came the hard part how should I deal with this? Often, this addiction to this fictional world, may be due to emotional problems empty. On the other hand, in the mildest case, it’s just a form of entertainment for him. You must learn to differentiate which is his case to learn how to act.
If it’s an addiction, the best is discuss why it is so important to him videogames, listen and express how you felt and how this affects their relationship, you must not judge him. Similarly and as a strategy, you may do other activities so that both can join and enjoy. If on the other hand, this is just a “hobby” for him, give yourself the opportunity to share and respect their tastes, remember that like it, you also have yours, such as shopping.
ALFA